When I first started my blog I had a list in my notes of posts I wanted to write, one of them was titled ‘Dedicated to him’… Now when my Boyfriend saw this he was persistent that I wrote it and here I am, finally writing it.
Soooo this post is called ‘Dedicated to him’
Now I’ve never really been a hopeless romantic or dreamed of falling at a guys feet or anything crazy (100% a lie.). I love it all, I love every moment. Falling in love is just the BEST!! Now I’m not trying to rub it in if you’re on your own because I was you but I just want to talk about how quickly things can change. It’s incredible how basically overnight someone can become your entire world!
When I started talking to my boyfriend, I had never met him, he lived in Spain (I’m in the U.K.) , I wasn’t really up for a relationship, let alone a long distance relationship, and my mental health was incredibly bad. But literally within 2 days I was head over heals in love. I’d never met him or had hardly spoken to him for that long but I just knew it, I knew I loved him.
Ever since then it has been a whirlwind. There are so many ups and downs to a long distance relationship BUT if you love the person and are willing then it is worth every single second. Every time I get to see him I am so happy, getting to spend time today is honestly incredible and I never realised how much you actually take things for granted until I was doing long distance. I savour every moment.
One thing that has helped the distance is communication, we WhatsApp message most moments we can and then try to Skype a lot. I find it exciting getting to Skype and see him, it’s what I look forward to on a daily basis. Sometimes I get to fall asleep on Skype if I’m anxious or want him there and it really helps. Another thing that I have done is made a scrapbook, it has pictures and stuff like train tickets from every visit we’ve had since we have first met and whenever I do feel down I really like to look back through it and think about the good things. Distance is something that I never planned on doing but it really has changed my life.
I can’t wait until the day where I get to tell our children all about it and we can be together, it is worth every second ❤
If any one wants any tips on LDR then feel free to ask, I don’t know everything but you learn when thrown into these situations!
Thats it for today,
Dom I FREAKING LOVE YOU! I know you’re reading!